This is the Pew Research Center's findings on how ideology influences child rearing priorities. I really am shocked by the omissions on both ends of the ideological spectrum. Shocked by how little empathy and persistence are taught at all. Even being well-mannered gets short shrift. And curiosity - asking questions is at the bottom of lot on both sides. This does not bode well for the future.
Here is the link to the article on the Pew Center article:
http://www.people-press.org/2014/09/18/how-is-ideology-linked-to-child-rearing-values/